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The Change Catalyst: Lessons from a 240km (150 mile) bike ride through mountain elevations of 1600 meters (long article)

Warwick on Aerobars Having just completed the longest bike ride of my life, I thought it would be good to share a few insights I got from the event. I would like to use this as a metaphor to contrast with how successful people go about achieving their own goals – business and otherwise.

One of the guaranteed ways I know to build self esteem and character is to set worthy goals and make them happen. In other words, do something hard and achieve it. If you need a boost in your life, find a challenging task that has been on your mind for a while and start thinking about how you can make it a reality. Here are a few thoughts to help you along the way:

Managing Adversity

Your ability to handle unexpected, or even expected but tough conditions will determine how well your success moves forward throughout your life. In any kind of bike race, rain is not your friend. So when I woke up at 2:45am to get ready, mist and rain was falling outside. How would you react to such an obstacle? One rider declared that he would only ride 40km, instead of the 240km planned as he ‘never rides in the rain’. (Ironically, the rain only fell for the first 40km!). Whether you run away from obstacles or make adjustments will depend on your willingness to take sensible risks in pursuit of your goals. When I saw the rain, I packed a wind-breaker, checked my brakes and made a mental note not to ride too close to the other riders.

Mental toughness

Related to adversity is mental toughness. Any long challenge or goal involves a battle with the mind games we all play on ourselves. When things get hard, thoughts cross our mind telling us it will be alright to quit, giving us very logical reasons why we should just stop. Success is often accompanied by demonstrating strong mental strength in the face of adversity.

The ride had a 60km section which involved almost continuous rolling hills up the mountain to 1600m. Riders commented that although they had ridden steeper (and shorter) mountains, the relentless nature of the uphill roads was a major challenge. As I was climbing up, I even noticed other riders just sitting by the side of the road pretending to have a mechanical malfunction – just to get a breather! Fine, if you are tired, rest. But why pretend something else is holding you back?

Later in the race after 130km, I started to suffer from a sharp pain in my left knee which had started about a week before the race (I think this was due to my saddle height being incorrectly positioned as it slipped during a training ride). For about 60km I was in constant pain ranging from uncomfortable to excruciating. I almost dropped out several times, but keep going. I will share with you how I overcome this pain below.

Make adjustments

When I started having knee pains, it wasn’t too bad and I kept on riding. Yes, I ignored the feedback my body was sending to me. How often do we ignore small feedback and wait until the feedback gets bigger and bigger? Well after 130km, I got the big feedback and the massive pain through my left knee was not to be ignored. So what should you do when you get feedback? Make adjustments. Here’s what I did. First, I dropped my speed and intensity of riding. That wasn’t too hard as I was physically in so much pain it would be have been almost impossible to continue. However, dropping away from the pack of riders was a psychological blow. The pain did subside slightly though. Next, I started to make changes to my environment – my bike. I lowered the saddle height and tried that for a while. Didn’t work. In fact, things got worse. Just like in real life when you try something out, it may not work well straight away. Don’t be afraid to scrap the idea and try something new. After a kilometre or two I raised the height of my saddle and that seemed to work a little better.

However, by this stage probably due to the stress I had put on the knee the pain was still very sharp and I started to think about dropping out. I couldn’t see how I could get through another 100km. One thing I did notice was that my heart rate was dropping to a very low rate – under 100 beats a minute – as I had slowed my speed down considerably to 20km/hr from around 30km/hr. So I thought if my heart rate is low I can exert myself a bit more. I started pedalling with my right leg only, making an over-exaggerated push down and then doing my best to get my left leg through the cycle without feeling too much pain. This pedalling rhythm must have looked rather strange to another watching, but I didn’t mind. That’s the good thing about pain, it really focuses your mind. I kept this up for about 10km and realised that I could do a half pedal with my left leg and then after about another 20km I could actually push through with the left leg without any pain.

I liken this to focusing on your strengths rather than your weaknesses. Once I realised I had a perfectly strong right leg and my aerobic condition could be pushed higher without stressing too much, I just used these strengths. Amazingly, for the final 30km I was pain free. All these adjustments as well as moving my position on the saddle and handlebars helped to keep me moving forward. I have to say that I was a little surprised to have got through to the end, but goes to show that being willing to continually make adjustments and having the mental toughness to keep going saw me through to the end of the pain tunnel.

Set small targets

I had always intended to finish the entire 240km ride, as I felt that my endurance levels were high enough having completed an Ironman triathlon two months before. However, as explained above when the pain in my knee kicked in I could see no way of finishing. Although this would have been a blow to my ego – that in itself was not enough to keep me going. At about 150km, I almost quit. The only thing that kept me going at that stage was to at least match my longest bike ride of 180km. That was my target to beat. When I reached 180km, my knee was no longer that painful so I re-set my target to 200km. Once I went passed 200km, I realised that I would be able to finish the race. But without setting the increment targets along the way I would not have reached the final milestone. This is what I call ‘giving yourself a way out with respect’. I could have quit when I passed 180km because that would still have been a success in itself.

We all know that we need targets and goals to accomplish worthy projects, but we also need the step-by-step goals that get us through the hour, day and week. And we need the flexibility to change them when we find they are too tough or too easy to achieve.

Stick together

In a group ride, you can cycle with other riders in a peloton and draft from the cyclists in front of you. This offers significant aerodynamic benefits (think of a flock of geese flying in formation) of up to 20%. You can match the speed of the rider you are drafting off at a lower intensity, saving your energy.

In your goals and targets, do you have a ‘peloton’ team to support you or are you riding alone? Successful people have mastermind groups of like-minded experts to push them through the tough times and support them when times are bad. When cycling you pick up a few cuts and scrapes as well as broken chains and tire blow outs. Having a buddy to stop and help you fix it up makes the journey much more pleasant. Whatever your target in business or personal life, have a buddy to support you.

Share your experience

Along with a team to help you on the journey, the sharing starts beforehand. I was able to share my experience learned from training for an Ironman triathlon in hot tropical conditions and especially on nutrition. Taking food while riding was new to several of my team-mates, and they said it helped them through the ride. Other team-mates had more riding experience which they shared with everyone.

We all have skills, knowledge and experience to share. If you wish to feel more a part of your team or mastermind seek ways to support the people supporting you. Be proactive to give tips and encourage your team.

Reward yourself

Don’t forget to reward yourself after the race! A major part of success comes from learning delayed gratification. Holding back on something you would love to do (for me it’s eating chocolate!) until you have achieved a part or all of your goal. I have a chocolate box which I allow myself to raid after a race is finished. I enjoy it a lot more and it allows me to keep a few kilograms lighter for the race which helps.

Give yourself small treats and rewards but make sure that you reward yourself after the successful accomplishment, not before!

Get ready for the next challenge

Once you have achieved a worthy goal and rewarded yourself, have a few days off to relax and enjoy the glow of success. Then, start thinking about the next challenge.

British Olympic rowing legend, Steve Redgrave, famously said after racing to his fourth Olympic gold, “If anyone sees me go near a boat again, they have my permission to shoot me.” Redgrave’s retirement did not last long. Four months later, he was back in training to become the first endurance athlete to win gold medals in five successive Olympic games. Whether you are a world champion or not, you still need to set yourself that next challenge. Don’t be satisfied by living on past successes. The best one is yet to come.

Hopefully these tips have been helpful to you and your worthy goals. Look forward to hearing your comments.

Warwick staying hydrated

Adjusting to the rain

One more week to first triathlon race of the season!

Well it’s been about two months since I started the long road to fitness. Joining a gym really helped and I have been averaging about 15 sessions a month.  The last month have been tough with many “brick” sessions of back to back cycling and running. This prepares the muscles to race tired - which is very important in triathlons.

Honestly, my body is feeling pretty exhausted. I gave myself a day off on Saturday to rest and sleep up.  It was a big help.  Although I do not have any aches and pains due my slow build up of exercise, I did not realise how much the brick session drained me. Doing a run only yesterday felt so good!

With 7 days before the race, I am only doing a few gentle workouts with a couple of swims thrown in.  I will also carb-up during the week on pasta. Although I am not a nutritionist and there are many schools of thought on endurance diets, there is something reassuring about bowls of pasta.  My goal for this race, as it’s my first of the season, is to get through safely and in a reasonable time (around 3 hours). With the other four to five races planned through the summer, I will look to drop some weight and that will probably mean a more protein based diet.

Once again during this process of change, I am surprised at how easy it is to achieve a consistent change when there is a fixed target in mind.  I wonder why I can’t keep this going throughout the year. Certainly, I have to put aside the excuses of busy travel schedules and packed work calendars.  Even though I spent last week in rural parts of China at a friend’s wedding, I still squeezed in several treadmill runs between the continuous banqueting.

I am looking forward to this first race, and see it as the first step in my continued journey towards better health. And perhaps to a faster race time of 2hours 45 minutes!

Stay on Track during Summer: Regular Review Your Goals

As temperatures rise, we start to think about the summer holidays.  I read once that people spend more time planning their vacation than they do planning their lives!

How often do you review your plans for this year? Do you have written goals?

One of the best tools that I use for my annual planning is a word document with all my goals inside. Divided into categories like family, personal, investment, business I write down all the goals that I want to achieve this year as well as longer term goals. Once a year I overhaul the goals and pick a focus for the year.

More important than having written goals, however, is that you regularly review them.  Napoleon Hill recommended a twice daily reading of goals which would certainly get you focused on what matters the most. I usually review my goals once a week and then again if I have time while traveling.

In my experience this time of year is a dangerous time for life planners. With five months gone in the year, we have made some progress in some of our goals - we may even be ahead. Or, if you haven’t made any progress on some goals, you may be ready to drop them.

Here’s a simple exercise you can do to help you stay focused through the summer period. Print out your goals in a booklet and carry it with you everywhere. Whenever you get a moment while travelling or “waiting” for a meeting, flick through your goals. This regular reminder will help keep you positive as you encounter the small frustrations of everyday life.

Enjoy the summer, have a wonderfully refreshing holiday and stay focused on what matters most to you!

Don’t burn out: Learn now to sneak up on your success

Having just joined a gym, I am fully aware of the path most people’s gym membership takes. Intense usage for the first month, followed by sporadic visits and finally lapsing within a couple of months.

The energy and enthusiasm that gets us started on a road towards a target can be lost as life gets in the way. Exhausting workloads, intense international travel, family commitments and taking care of children. It’s very difficult to stay committed to complete a change.  Not only in health but also any significant life changes requires attention and constant maintenance.  Conventional wisdom says that if you complete a new action for 21 days it becomes a habit, but in my experience that is just not true. Maybe in the past when the amount of stimuli in people’s lives were much lower, but not today. There are so many things competing for your energy and attention that it requires ongoing attention to stay the course.

One technique that you can use to sustain yourself is to set very easy targets to start. By setting low targets you guarantee that you start succeeding from day one. My ultimate running target is to run a 5 minute kilometer average for 10 kilometers. But I first target was “to put on my exercise clothes”.  I found that by making this goal so simple it broke through the procrastination that had held me back for several months.  Then I set an easy target to walk for 40minutes on the treadmill. Now as I regain my fitness levels, I am very gradually moving up these targets. For example, now I walk for 4 minutes and run for one minute. I will gradually increase the amount of running over the weeks, and by tracking my speed and heart rate will be able to slowly but surely reach my targets. Most important of all, I won’t get injured and I build up my confidence by making it easy to succeed.

Ultimately, the most successful people don’t necessarily have special knowledge or approaches. With google, best practice techniques are within easy reach of us all. But successful people are consistent. They demonstrate good beahaviour constantly and relentlessly over days, months, weeks and years.  Set yourself up for success, make success easy for yourself. Small easy targets. Be constant and enjoy the fruits of your hard work! Best of luck.

One simple time management tip

The first quarter of the year has gone. 25%. Still on track with your goals? Worrying too much about the economy and the bad news that everyone loves to tell you about. Well, aside from turning off your TV and getting more positive friends, what else can you do to stay even more focused on your goals this year?

Today I will share one simple time management tip.  You may already know it. Or like me - did it in the past - but stopped doing it.  I recently went to Hong Kong and attended a lunchtime talk organised by the British Chamber of Commerce. Kristin Lowe gave me a good reminder of a some simple time management tips. A refresh is as good as a change.

The tip is simple. I recommend that you use a notebook or an electronic version if that works better for you.  Everyday, write down your Top 3 results that you want to acheive that would make a difference in reaching your goals. The key words here are “reaching your goals”. It’s easy to fill up time with intensive repetitive tasks but how much closer are you to reaching your important targets?  How much time are you spending on Facebook and checking emails? Could you reduce that to - say - ten minutes a day? And allocate the saved time to your Top3.

In your notebook, write down “Top 3 Results” and make a list of the three most important actions that you could complete in one day that will make a significant impact on moving forward on your road to success this year.

Work through the first one until you complete it. Don’t move on or get distracted by interruptions or aimless checking of emails. Stay on top of it until you have taken it as far as possible.

A final check you can use to ensure you have the right goals is to ask yourself, “What actions do I need to complete today to make it a fantastically productive day?”

Stay focused today and everyday with your “Top 3 Results” list.

How a reality TV show will get you more focused on your goals

I seem to be attracting more media attention recently. After my appearance on Culture Matters to discuss all things funny, I have been profiled to appear in Shanghai Quest - although in Chinese the name means “Home in Shanghai”.

According to their web site : Shanghai Quest is a weekly 30-minute reality-style TV program, featuring expats who live in Shanghai - their gains, losses and culture shock insights. The show is fun, vivid and practical. Each episode is comprised of a ten-minute documentary depicting the difficulties and achievements encountered during their Shanghai quest; a studio discussion, who professionally provides insight and suggestions on getting by in Shanghai; and an informative section, where the host gives detailed information on the related topic, such as official websites, addresses and contacts. Audience participation is also included, with answers to e-mails about life in Shanghai - from business procedures to dining.

It’s been an interesting week in terms of adapting to having a video camera popping up in places they don’t normally! During our improv rehearsal, while setting up and delivering my book launch, in the studio, in the buildup to my key note at the 10 year anniversary of Toastmasters China and for our improv show performance.

I have a new found sense of admiration for reality-show participants. It can be really difficult not to play-up to the camera (impossible perhaps), and to get on while ignoring it’s presence. On the whole, I enjoyed it. As a performer, I tend to up my game when the deadline is coming or the spotlights are on. Having a camera and interviewer in your face is certainly a way to get focused, realising that your personal brand image depends on how you look on the final cut.

What gets your focused?

Besides having a camera following you around all the time, what else could get your attention for your most important tasks at hand? What raises your game?  If you had to play-back your day, what would you see? An action movie, a horror film or a (mundane) Truman show documentary?  Think about tomorrow as though you will be recorded the whole day. How does that make you feel?  Think about today, what would you want to add, change or subtract if you did have a camera recording your every move?

With 25% of the year behind you, now is the time to re-focus. Take out your goals and targets and pick one area to focus on for the next week. Have a wonderful week!

How focused are you?

Get focusedIt’s been raining for about 36 hours here in Shanghai and the weather outside prompted me to think more about my holiday to Bali next month. For a minute I even felt bored. Are you ever bored with life? Boredom is defined as “an emotional state experienced during periods lacking activity or when individuals are uninterested in the activities surrounding them.”

But if you are one of the lucky people in the world to have access to a computer and the internet, you can change your surroundings immediately.  I pulled out my goals list for 2009, downloaded a few podcasts, updated my Twitter feed, checked in to see what my friends were up to on Facebook and started writing a few articles. With access to technology there is really no reason to be bored.  But perhaps a greater problem is focus - or rather the lack of focus.

You may be unfocused if:

  • You are flipping through all 222 photos of one of your friends on Facebook.
  • You are “following” 20 people on Twitter and reply to all of their messages.
  • You read an online newspaper “cover-to-cover”.
  • You are chatting with friends on SKYPE, MSN and G-Talk simultaneously.

You get the picture. With so much activitiy and access to media and friends how do you stay focused on the important goals you want to acheive this year?  Let’s go low-tech:

1. Print out your schedule

I use an A4 page to map out my weekly calendar and another A4 page to plan monthly. I post them up on my wall, so I have a four week ahead look at my schedule (4 sheets) plus I have the entire year (12 sheets) on the wall so I have a year-at-a-glance. Yes, it does tend to fill up an entire wall but I am lucky as my wife is understanding! I find this really powerful and more effective than my PDA / phone calendar. I can quickly skim through the whole year to see my holiday times (I plan on taking 6 weeks off this year), my client work is also blocked out, and travel plans. It’s quick to respond to people who call asking about my available schedule, I just turn around and it’s there. Plus I have a good visual grasp of how my schedule is looking over the year. When I am traveling its easy to take the weekly calendars with me in a folder. Low-tech but very p

2. Less goals, more results

The fewer the goals you focus on this year, the more productive and successful you will be. In 2008, I focused the latter half of the year on writing my book The One Minute Presenter .  By being laser-focused on this one goal, I completed the whole project in less than 6 months with most of the writing done in 3 months.  Now if I open my document for “Goals 2008″ there are many more targets and dreams that I want to achieve. I just decided to put all my energy into a big, important one. What are your essential, must-have, breakthrough goals that you would like to achieve this year?  Focus on no more than 2 or 3 major goals. The other goals (like learning how to surf in Bali!) can wait. You will enjoy them a lot more once you have achieved your major targets.

If you need help with staying focused this year, contact The Change Catalyst. I can help you identify the most essential goals for you and accelerate your progress to reaching them. May 2009 be your best year yet!




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