The English language is full of idioms on ‘bending rules’ and ‘breaking rules’. While American general Douglas McArthur said, ‘ You are remembered for the rules you break.’ While the rebel without a cause and the lone cowboy project strong images (archetypes), sometimes breaking the rules is going to cost you. You have to be aware of which rules are contributing to your success.
In triathlon racing, the transition between getting off your bike and going out on the run is called T2 (transition 2). Once you cross the line into the transition area, you dismount and run with your bike to your station where you park your bike and put on your runners. One rule I didn’t know was that you cannot even start to take off your helmet while you are running to your station. The penalty is 15 seconds. This happened to me in a race and I was surprised and annoyed with myself. It cost me time but more important in an endurance race it cost me energy - being annoyed for a few seconds is energy that needs to be channeled into the awaiting run. In the same race, my team mate got stuck with the same penalty and that 15 seconds was the difference between her coming second and third!
As a frequent business traveler, I am always amazed as I go through security at how many people get caught up in the ‘emptying pockets’ section. It’s a rule that you know you are going to have to keep. No getting around that one. So why not put your loose change, keys and phone in your carry-on bag before getting to security. I have got it to the stage now that when I pass the metal detector, it doesn’t beep. I can move on without being “wanded” up and down. By knowing the rules of the game, I come prepared and sail through an area that causes a lot of stress for people.
Think about the things you do on a regular basis. Commuting, flying, or applying for visas. What rules of the game can’t you change? I live in the suburbs of Shanghai and I know that if I go into the city in the morning I need to leave before 0645 to guarantee a smooth trip that doesn’t involve being stuck in a long line of traffic. Or I can wait until 0930. My stress levels are reduced greatly and this helps me maintain a higher level of performance. If you are getting stuck in a ‘trap’, think about ways to work with the rules of the game.
Have fun and like any game, enjoy the process!
If you are reading this blog, then there is a good chance you are someone you likes to keep improving and strive for better and better performances. While stress can be a strong motivator for many people to perform better, it can also break you down.
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